December 6, 2024
By Anthony Russo, Director of Fabrication and Design
With the holidays quickly approaching, many TGS families may be considering purchasing a smartphone for their students. For parents, making this decision can be overwhelming and may involve considerations about everything from safety to convenience, and from peer relationships to determining strategies that align with the family's values.
A great starting point is to reflect on your own smartphone use and values as a parent. How do you use your device? What example do you want to set for your child? If you choose to give your student a smartphone, these reflections will help set the parameters for your child’s smartphone use and for a discussion with your child.
Creating opportunities for open conversation about the phone is key, and including your child in the conversation empowers them to make decisions and understand the considerations. This is not just about purchasing a smartphone; It’s about nurturing healthy habits and shared understanding.
The following resources can help get the conversation started.
How parents’ smartphone use affects their kids | University of California
Yes, your smartphone habit is affecting your kid—here's how | Today's Parent
Phone use while parenting: An observational study to assess the association of maternal sensitivity and smartphone use in a playground setting | ScienceDirect
Children’s engagement with digital devices, screen time | Pew Research Center
Inside the debate over The Anxious Generation | Platformer
The impact of smartphones and social media on children | House of Commons Library
Social Media Has Not Destroyed A Generation | Lydia Denworth
Parents Guide For Supporting Kids with their First Smartphone | Constructive Parenting
Parenting Question | What do we need to consider when buying our child a smartphone? | Tooled Up Education
5 Things to Consider Before Buying Your Child a Phone | Parents
Alternatives to smartphones for kids | Smartphone Free Childhood
Digital Wellness I Tweens & Teens I Screen Time - Parent Toolkit | Heather Barnard
Winning Screentime | Patrick Green
Research of The Month | Do parental controls work and what are the pros and cons? | Tooled Up
Parents' Ultimate Guide to Parental Controls | Common Sense Media